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Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Then and Now: 3 C's Convert Spills All



I started off this semester as a disillusioned Internet consumer. I felt guilty about the time I had “wasted” (blog surfing, Facebook stalking, news-article-comment-reading) online over the years and I blamed new media for my own lack of productivity. I looked forward to this “Digital Culture” class by virtue of its seeming departure from the norm (as far as English classes go, anyway!) but I had no idea then of its potential to change how I view our world.  
In my former life...{image from here}

This semester, through a combination of the various exercises we’ve been assigned to do as well as my self-motivated learning, I’ve come to understand the key I was missing in my prior identity in the digital world: the difference between acting and being acted upon. In other words, I’ve learned how to balance potentially passive (and often “pointless”) consuming with proactive creating and meaningful connecting. I needed the 3 C’s, and I’m well on my way to making them a part of my digital life from here on out. 

My self-directed learning has been characterized by reading (consuming), writing (creating), and conversing with others (connecting) on a variety of topics in digital culture. I have collaborated with those in my own project group as well as others in the class throughout the semester. Here are some highlights for my “semester in review.”  

On my blog, I wrote about “Slaughterhouse-Five” after reading, discussing it in my ENG 365 class, and analyzing its themes in light of digital culture topics we had briefly touched on in class and that I had considered myself (1 & 2). I reviewed David Weinberger’s “Too Big to Know” and shared my learning about collaboration and crowdsourcing. I attended the Mormon Media Conference and reflected on concepts we discussed during class time, such as the draws and dangers of virtual worlds (1 & 2). I also read about some of Dr. Coyne’s research studies (1 & 2 published, others under review). Next on my list of sources to consult? Zimmerman’s (2007) study on “Associations between media viewing and language development in children under two years” as I prepare to parent an “under-two-year-old” starting at the end of January!

On G+, I did a lot of interacting with my classmates. I enjoyed looking into links and comments posted by classmates as well as sharing my own findings and reflections. Some of the interesting articles and links I shared included a robot boss being developed and with implications for the workplace, a moving 9/11 photojournalism curation, and a successful blogger’s extensive advice for those wanting to run a successful online business from home. Additionally, I shared my research about video games with the LBP group on G+ (Video games good for girls & Good gaming for your kids—also Badges, video games, & gamification that I shared with the Badgers, too). Other contributions I made to group projects included writing a chapter segment for CCC’s novel (as well as promoting their project on G+, encouraging other classmates to do the same) as well as submitting a poem to Menagerie.  

Those who I felt contributed most to my learning? Besides my digisweethomies (who have not only helped me learn but who I also look forward to keeping in touch with beyond this class!), the classmates who have most inspired me with their contributions to class discussions on and offline are Ellis Dyck, Shelby Boyer, and Casey Deans. I found that their respective choices of content as well as their engaging writing styles set them apart. Way to go, guys!

I think the most important self-directed learning I did was in my conversations with my mom about her views and concerns about the digital world. I felt that we were able to learn from each other as we discussed important issues that relate particularly to our family’s situation. In my group project, I was especially concerned with the importance of connecting generations, and did self-directed learning in that theme to prepare our materials for our webinar and youtube playlist (here’s my especially for grandparents post). 

As far as group collaboration goes, I tried my best to help my group in delegating responsibilities and making sure we recorded those responsibilities and were regularly communicating outside of class. With Allie, I “rallied the troops” as we established ourselves as a group and decided on the direction we wanted to go. I helped in the processes of gathering social proof, creating our survey, putting together our proposal video, testing the webinar software, compiling our presentation materials, and curating our youtube playlist. It’s been an awesome journey, and I wish everyone the best in the future! Thanks for a wonderful semester.

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

{{crowdsourcing final exam questions}}

Objective Questions

  1. For easy, free, and secure personal and family finance tracking, ____.com is a good resource to consult.
  2. According to David Wiley's opencontent.org, what are some of the possible uses of open source content? (can be more than one correct answer)
    1. reuse
    2. revise
    3. redistribute
    4. remix
    5. ruin
    6. {answer here}
  3. According to David Weinburger's book Too Big to Know, a solitary expert on a subject can tell you more about that subject than can a bunch of non-experts on the Internet.  True or False? {answer here}
Essay Questions
  1. The virtual world allows for individuals to embody themselves in avatars and experience things that they otherwise could not in their actual physical bodies. While this kind of virtual exploration can lead to valuable learning, alternate embodiment must be balanced with a healthy amount of physical reality in order to avoid potentially harmful effects. {1, 2 & 3}
  2. Though people often turn their noses up at videogames, disregarding them as time-wasting and anti-social, there are actually educational and health benefits of some video-gaming. {1 & 2}

Friday, November 30, 2012

Wrapping Up: Case Study Report

While visiting teaching my Family Studies/Human Development friend last night, she was telling me about her favorite teachers. She mentioned Sarah Coyne and told me that Dr. Coyne teaches a media class. I had no idea! Allie and I were excited to share our case study with her, yes, but after hearing that, also looked forward to learning about what Dr. Coyne's students have been up to - had projects similar to ours been in the works all semester long?!

The beauuutiful Alexandra Crafton (we need to take group pictures, group ;))
We had a great meeting with Dr. Coyne.  Allie gave a good overview of our case study, including our main goal/ideal of reaching out to families with education and encouragement. We told her about the iterative process of the project development as well as the changes we made to our choice of format along the way.  She said she knows exactly how sometimes things don't go exactly as we initially planned or would have liked (I felt very validated). Dr. Coyne commended us on our project- though I think she must be partial to our particular choice of focus in digital culture! She thought interacting directly with real families is a GREAT idea- and she told us about some of the things her students have been up to this semester. Different class, different projects- but a little bit of overlapping subject matter. (And her students, too, are required to create a blog and post two entries each week as well as read and comment on others' blogs. The focus of their writing is the media content they are exposed to each week and its potential effects.)

"Media, Family, and Human Development" (SFL 358) all about the effects of media on development - body image, relationships, violence, potential for connection, etc. positive and negative. She told us about some of the various lectures, including a guest speaker stay-at-home-mom who started her own business because of opportunities her blog allowed. Dr. Coyne's students created an ad campaign promoting the family that they put on YouTube that I want to check out. They have a semester-long content analysis project coding media for content related to families. Sounds like a class I would have loved to take in conjunction with this one! I got the syllabus from her, so I  have the reading list, at least. :)

We discussed the importance of connection when it comes to family interactions online - how beneficial it can be for parents to be able to "speak their kids' language" in the digital world. She has given presentations at conferences about media and the family and it is always refreshing for her when she meets parents really interested in immersing themselves in their kids' world online.

I'm very glad that Dr. Coyne agreed to meet with us. As a parent, educator, and researcher, she is fully invested in the issues that we've been exploring this semester.

After our meeting, I stumbled upon Dr. Coyne's blog that she uses for her class...Check it out at http://coynemedia.blogspot.com/2012/10/is-liking-status-prosocial.html (as well as links to her students' blogs).

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

A Case Worth Studying

Digital Sweet Home came together because of a shared desire to learn and share how families can be strengthened through digital media use. And, as we've discovered this semester, there are many others who are making efforts toward the same goal.

Two of those individuals are professors here at BYU. One is Dr. Charles (Chuck) Knutson from the Computer Science department and the other is Dr. Sarah Coyne from the School of Family Life. Dr. Knutson founded the Internet Safety Project, a database dedicated to educating parents, teachers, and teens about the benefits and risks of technology. Dr. Coyne has participated in various studies researching media's impact on family relationships, including the effects of blogging, video games, and social media.

Dr. Knutson
Dr. Coyne
As we finalize our online family resource curating, video compilations, and project analysis, we plan to present our "case" to these professors. We are well aware of the limitations of our project and know that we've made just a small ripple of an impact with what we've done, so we are excited to share what we have and what we've learned as well as discuss what other efforts are being made - and what more we can each do individually - to promote family media use that strengthens and connects.

Audrey works for Dr. Knutson and he told her today that he'd love to meet with us and I'm waiting to hear back from Dr. Coyne about setting up a time for next week. We'll likely divide into two groups, with one or two going with Audrey and the other(s) with me. We've done a lot of "reflecting" on our learning process as a group and we're excited to do some more turning outward as we wrap things up...good practice for our interactions after this class, when we each take a part of Digital Sweet Home with us and continue to make small little ripples for good!

Thursday, November 15, 2012

Hooks, Traps, and Minefields

I attended a paper presentation last Friday at the Mormon Media Studies Symposium and I'm glad I did. Here's what I took away from "Hooks, Traps, and Minefields: The Persuasive Power of Anti-Pornography Messages in LDS Priesthood Conference Talks" by Vauna Davis.
 
{Davis mentioned these two videos as using especially good metaphors}

Stay Within the Lines
 
The Sting of the Scorpion

According to Davis' analysis, there are eight basic strategies or suggestions that church leaders have used to persuade the men of the Church to avoid, or ditch, pornography use (Davis' sample was from 2006-2011). Additionally, social science theories shed light on additional approaches that could supplement the Church's overall anti-pornography message. Ultimately, church leaders' use of metaphors (such as hooks, traps, and minefields) are especially effective in illustrating how porn addictions work. Interestingly, hearing the stories of these metaphors, more so than reading them, has a bigger impact on the target audience.

The Church's Eight Points of Counsel
1. Recognize porn's harmful effects (addiction, harm to relationships, loss of spiritual capacity and divine guidance, failure to fulfill Priesthood responsibilities)
2. Resist the natural man
3. Counteract contemporary moral standards
4. Beware of the power of Satan
5. Exercise agency
6. Live virtuously
7. Repent of using pornography
8. Anticipate the rewards of abstaining from porn

Davis' Additional Recommendations for Delivering an Anti-Porn Message
-Give concrete suggestions for overcoming porn addictions (such as talking to a friend or attending a 12 step group)
-Show successful behavioral models (such as a video of a man sharing his story of finding healing)
-Further emphasize the negative effects porn use can have on families (damage to relationships, lack of respect, etc.)

This stuff matters. A lot. Sometimes it may feel like pornography use and immorality in general are too big of a problem for us to tackle as families and as disciples of Christ and it can get discouraging to feel like we're fighting such a beast. But if we don't continue to talk about the problem and offer people a way out of this trap, the silence will continue to stifle those who desperately want to be freed from addiction.

I hope this documentary comes to fruition...

menagerie submission draft

Here is something I've been working on today. Critiques welcome! Now on to my novel segment...:)

no title yet
Two roads diverged
In the springtime.

Through all the seasons I stand at the fork
If I take this left road
Surely it will converge with the right again!
This way
I’ll have it all
Exotic blue lakes
Pearls of great price
Smell the roses, gather popcorn balls
Pin a butterfly to the wall
Catch a falling star and put it in my pocket for
Another day.

But since diverged, this one road has changed to
Two
Even if rejoined in some future
Highway.
A road isn’t like any other
A road isn’t even like
Itself
Because springtime turns into
Summer into
Fall reminds me that the trees along the road are
Ever changing

Okay, then what if  
I run down this road
Then run back really fast and
Take that one
Outsmarting
Time and space and Nature

More traveled?
Less traveled?
It takes me awhile to realize
That all of these other travelers passing me by are
Curiously
Irrelevant.
(No offense.)
“This road is more traveled by” advises one over her shoulder
“This one less” boasts another
That's not something
I particularly care about.

The melting snow forms a puddle beneath me
Reflecting
Someone
With a bird’s eye view
Knows me better

Springtime again
I took a road
And sometime soon
It will make all the difference in
My Piece of
Foreign sky.

Thursday, November 8, 2012

Meeting Polly

After writing about virtual worlds last week, this week I have the opportunity to write inside a virtual world. Well, sort of. I've decided to take on a segment of a collaborative novel whose plot very much centers around the theme of virtual worlds and the issues they raise about identity. It's been quite awhile since I wrote fiction, so I'm very glad I have lots of context for my section - I just have to put my scenario into words! I figured I would organize my thoughts and start the writing process here on my blog. 

My chapter segment synopsis, 7.1:  
-Polly cleans up the spaghetti dinner, feeling a little dissatisfied, thinking about Dr. Herrod’s kind demeanor, at least until he left abruptly. She feels lost as to how she could finally get him to invite her over.
-She’s in a foul mood when she finally goes back to her regular apartment, to find Jenny thoroughly occupied in her avatar game. Polly tries talking with her, but it’s like talking to herself. Giving up, Polly joins the game and finds James.


I chose this section because I think it will be fun to explore and explain Polly's thoughts as she is in solitude at the sink, musing on what just happened at dinner. I think I'll be good at describing her "foul mood" by using my own feelings/behaviors of moodiness as a model :). Finally, I'll get to illustrate the unique phenomenon of being lost in a virtual world, oblivious to those in the real world trying to get one's attention. I'm planning to start writing tomorrow afternoon. Below, I've included some notes and points I'd like to keep in mind as I write.

Important Traits about Polly from the Character Bio:
-She doesn’t really have any close friends, especially because she worries that the groups she is hunting will discover and harm them
-Polly has found that it allows her to be free from constraint. She is not the orphaned girl with no set identity, but a normal, educated woman of 25 who teaches at an elementary school. She has dates at least once a month and is just such a down-to-earth person online, that her severely limited dating experience is somewhat forgotten, or at least set aside. 
-She has made cyber friends and has a cyber parrot, so she feels almost more at home there than in her own apartment, which she shares with Jenna. They haven’t become best friends yet, but Polly is learning to open up to people
-She and Jenna sometimes go into "digilife" together since they both happen to enjoy it.

Context Surrounding Polly from the Final Chapter Outline:
(ch. 1) Karate
(ch. 2) Polly acts differently depending on whom she's with, which comes from having to constantly change who she is as a spy
(ch. 3) She has been talking to James for a couple months at this point. She confides in him about Grant
(ch. 4) She's used to jobs taking a long time (Dr. Herron won't let her in his house)
(ch. 5) Secretly commutes back to her real apartment so Jenna doesn't get suspicious. She still likes Grant, but he doesn't respond to her flirts
(ch. 6) Weeks pass, and Polly continues trying to get Dr. Herron to trust her. She talks to him every day just a little bit, then finally invites him for dinner at her place and he comes. She can tell he's beginning to see her as a friend, but when she offers to come to his house to look at a plumbing problem he mentions, he declines, saying he can figure it out. 
(ch. 7) She goes to the computer to unwind and talk to James. This time she realizes she's falling for him and that she is conflicted between James and Grant. 
(ch. 8) Goes to ask for a cup of sugar, realizes Dr. Herron and James are the same person
(ch. 9) Now she's conflicted between fondness for James and duty to work against Dr. Herron
(ch. 10) Polly knows she needs to know what Dr. Herron's plot is before she can figure out who he really is...
 


Friday, November 2, 2012

Virtual Worlds: Part 2

I spent a little time today on the Second Life website as well as searching for articles/blogs with the search phrase "merits of virtual worlds."

On the Second Life site, I clicked on a link labeled "Real Life" and was brought to pages and pages of real places with the tag line "Travel the virtual world without leaving home!" I have to admit, some of these look kinda cool (some of them look kinda weird). I wouldn't mind having a sneak peak at some of these places, though I don't intend to create an account, even for that purpose. Here are a few of the thousands of places/events residents can visit...

Beautiful French art exhibit

 
In order to seek the potential good of virtual worlds read this article, "Avatars Help People Develop Real-World Skills" and a couple others like it on Science Daily. I am kind of skeptical of these studies, even though they are supposedly based in research- but I definitely need to do some more reading. I'd like to find testimonials via Second Life users' blogs or articles backing these claims up. Let me know if/how you have benefited from a second life or if you have a link I should check out as I continue to learn more about this stuff!

Thursday, November 1, 2012

My Doubts "As They Really Are"

I've given "Second Life" the time of day only twice, ever. Once was three years ago, when Elder Bednar told me about it during a CES fireside. The other was today in class as I watched Dr. Burton's avatar fly over green meadows and explore virtual art and architecture.

Remember this scene from "The Truman Show?"
image from here
Three years ago, I was creeped out by the stories that were shared about virtual romantic relationships. Today, I was entranced by the novelty of the parallel universe that exists- for the opportunities it allows people who can't experience certain things in "real" life, whether it's because of geographic or financial limitations or simply the law of gravity. But I'm still very skeptical about whether good can really come from it. And that's even after taking away the "sketchy" stuff we've specifically been counseled to avoid...

After class, I decided to listen to the talk again. (Read the Ensign article here,)

I need to do my own reading/watching/researching about "Second Life" before I completely dismiss it as "just a techno-utopian time suck." But, though it may seem unfair, I'm using my first exposure to it, Elder Bednar's talk, as a reference point. So perhaps tomorrow I'll delve back into that other world. But for now, here are some notes I jotted down as I listened to "Things As They Really Are." (I know many of my classmates have already referenced this talk, or at least the Mormon message. But I still want to include some pertinent parts here.)
About to experience things as they really are...
image from here
Our physical bodies are important in our progression in that they provide a breadth, depth, and intensity of experience that wasn't possible in the pre-mortal existence- these are experiences we must have "according to the flesh."

body + spirit = OUR REALITY & IDENTITY 
 
If Satan can't get us to misuse our physical bodies, he will try to minimize the importance of them by beguiling us to disconnnect gradually and physically from "things as they really are." One of these ways is to entice us to "neglect eternal relationships for digital distractions, diversions, and detours that have no lasting value."

To replicate, augment, or create virtual realities is good if it saves lives or improves the quality of life (ex. flight simulations for pilots, temple design, etc.).

"I raise an apostolic warning about the potentially stifling, suffocating, suppressing and constraining impact of some kinds of cyberspace interactions and experiences upon our souls."

I want to experience "light and truth so discernable they can be tasted"

"O then, is not this real?"


Don't substitute "the monotony of virtual repetition for the infinite variety of God's creations and convince us we are mortal things to be acted upon instead of eternal souls with agency to act for ourselves"

Two questions for my personal pondering and study:
  1. Does the use of various technology and media invite or impede the constant companionship of the Holy Ghost in my life?
  2. Does the time I spend using various technology and media enlarge or restrict my capacity to live, to love and to serve in meaningful ways?
"I promise you will receive answers, inspiration and instruction from the Holy Ghost suited to your individual circumstances and needs."

Friday, October 26, 2012

"I'm proud of it!": 21st Century Mom Who Hasn't Jumped on the Facebook Bandwagon

image from here
And she probably won't anytime soon...unless setting up an account is mandated at the next LDS General Conference.

My mom has decided not to join Facebook as a matter of personal choice. She's fine that her children have accounts; she sees its merits in quickly reaching lots of people to share the Gospel; but she prefers more traditional means of communication. "I just don't think I'm programmed to use it, and I have no desire to use it. A handful of my friends are the same way."

My mom is at peace with her decision. She knows she's invited to the "party" as it were, but simply chooses not to attend. However, she realizes that there may be some parents who feel isolated if they're not actively involved in social media. While reading an article in "Parade" magazine today on a different subject, my mom found a good description of how those individuals might feel. The author of the article explained, "There's always a part of me that worries I'm one social misstep away from sitting alone in the cafeteria."

image from here
So, what to say to the parent who wants to be informed about digital media on behalf of their family, but has an aversion to using the tools him/herself?

"Times have changed," we could say. "You've got to change along with them in order to keep up with everyone else in today's society. You should subscribe to everything good the digital world has to offer!" 

But that's not what I tell my mom. She has made changes and sacrifices for us kids for years and years, and I don't see a need for her "un-tech-savvy" identity to undergo a transformation in order for her to continue to connect with us in meaningful ways. She's not silly, paranoid, or out of touch. Old-fashioned, maybe (and "proud of it!"), but that doesn't mean she can't be informed - even digitally literate - about issues pertinent to her family. I am proud of her balanced approach to the digital revolution despite being someone who's not prone to embrace every aspect of it. And when I find myself enjoying being her personal "newsfeed" of sorts over the phone, I think I actually admire that she goes against the grain :). She has found ways to be involved in her family's digi-lives without conforming in a way that is contrary to her personal opinions.

She doesn't want a Facebook account of her own, but once in a while she'll sign on to my brother's. She'd rather stick with her anciently outdated e-mail service, but she's created a Gmail account so she can use those features when she needs to and so she can keep up with our blogs. She won't win any speed-texting competitions, but I love receiving frequent pix messages from her, whether it's to get my opinion about an item of clothing or to share a sweet photo of my new niece. She doesn't have an iPod or iPhone of her own (proudly relying on her boombox and basic cell phone, several years old now), but she has familiarized herself with these new gadgets enough to set clear restrictions/expectations for their use in our home.

image from here
For our fireside, Digital Sweet Home wants to accentuate the positive effects of the digital age on the family, focusing on the principles of communication, trust, and unity using Church publications, statements from leaders, our personal examples and the collective wisdom of the group that attends. But our message is not that every online resource, tool, and opportunity must be embraced by parents in order to be good parents. Our goal is to educate, offering ourselves as a generational bridge, and then to encourage parents to prayerfully consider their own family's needs and act accordingly.

Thursday, October 25, 2012

Two Places at Once

Ah, to be in two places at once...remember that precious scene from "A Walk to Remember"?

image from here 

Hermione Granger was able to successfully conquer the feat as well - at least temporarily (no pun intended). Today's talk of MuggleNet and such reminded me of her time-turner in Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban. In order to attend all the classes she wanted to, this stellar student would micro-manage that precious commodity we call time.

image from here

The Internet, too, has allowed me to be in, well, several "places" at once. I'm looking forward to tuning in to at least a small part of the live streaming of Time Out for Women to find out what it's like, perhaps while also watching the BYU basketball game tomorrow night at the same time I am organizing my desk area, which has become a royal mess. (Note: I became aware of this streaming thanks to an email from my Grandma...and to think I ever doubted her digital awareness!)

image from here

But just as the stress of a hectic life became overwhelming for Hermione, sometimes the 55 open tabs on Firefox slow my computer (and my sanity) down as well. And when my husband tells me that often while I'm on my laptop he feels like I'm in a different world, impossible to reach, I have to bring my thoughts and ideas and my whole self back to where my body is physically at. Because as great as it is to have magical multi-tasking capabilities, sometimes it's nice to be just in one place, all in one piece, at peace with myself apart from that always-busy, busy world.


P.S. An interesting development in the Microsoft workplace: "Your robot boss is watching you"

Tuesday, October 16, 2012

Musings at Midterms

Probably my favorite aspect of this semester is the fact that though my classes vary drastically in their content, the things I am learning about in each seem to overlap each other, and I’ve been enjoying the cohesion—it makes me feel like my learning is personalized, even in four institutionalized classes. I think it helps that self-directed learning is encouraged and even required in this particular class. I’m moving right along with my initial goal at the start of the semester to develop skills that will keep me learning even after I graduate.

We’ve talked a lot about reality, fiction, and the perception of what’s what in my modern American lit class. Several connections with digital culture are explored in my blog post devoted to “Slaughterhouse-Five” – but the concept that has stuck with me the most is how truth can be represented or misrepresented online, just as Vonnegut blatantly (and sometimes subtly) blends fact with fantasy. You can say anything that may or may not reflect the “truth” of things—whether it’s about current events, a presidential candidate, or yourself—and potentially (mis)inform the hundreds or thousands in your sphere of influence. Is the power of the masses too often unwisely accompanied by a collective trust, or do we need to be more vigilant in approaching the unlimited and unfiltered beast with a “buy at your own risk” attitude?
In my post about Weinberger’s“Too Big to Know,” I mentioned the connection I found in the collaborative translation of the King James Bible. I actually included Weinberger’s book in my list of potential sources in a paper proposal for my British lit class exploring the balance of openness and authority in both the Bible translation and Internet crowdsourcing. I’m not planning to write a full-length paper, but it was fun to consider, at least on a shallow level, some similarities and differences between the two time periods.
My learning has been heavily informed by my classmates. But the nature of my own interactions with these students has shifted from a consumer-heavy approach at the start of the semester (wherein I spent more time simply responding to others’ research and ideas on G+), to a stronger emphasis on creating and connecting (as I have found more direction in my personal and group learning, I’ve found a greater desire and need to collaborate about my own discoveries). I think that shift is representative of both my peer interactions and my self-directed learning. At the start of the semester, I was a bit tentative in my approach to the class—where do I begin? I found it easiest to read about the links and comments others had posted and respond to them as best I could. Now, I see the value in pursuing my interests and sharing them with others around me. I don’t need to be an expert to be sharing what I’m learning.
Forming groups for projects has helped me immensely in developing my ability to “create,”though I still have a long way to go. From here on out, I think I should take a little more time to familiarize myself with the group topics/projects I haven't looked into as much as I have the badges and lit mag - specifically the remix and collaborative writing/transmedia groups. I think my own group could benefit from seeing how these folks are creating, and I bet we could offer each other valuable feedback!

Thursday, October 11, 2012

EFG (Especially For Grandparents)

Image created by Digi-Gram on SignMaker

My parents love their role as grandparents. While they have the luxury of living on the same coast as their beloved grandbabies, all five of the kiddos live at least four hours away. Ever since my parents discovered Skype- thanks to their favorite daughter's idea and webcam gift- they have loved keeping in touch with their grandkids in that medium (remember this post?). In looking for more ideas and resources specifically for grandparents using Skype and other media tools, I found a few links I'd like to share.

A Skype-ing Grandma
"Digi-Gram" tells a delightful story of Grandma Patsy, a friend who skyped her granddaughter and ended up having a tu-tu dance party in the comfort of her own home, where she could be silly and have fun and no one could see but her granddaughter! Digi-Gram then includes a list of ideas for grandparents using Skype, as well as links for setting it up and getting started. She writes,

"Consider using Skype to:
  1. See Halloween costumes before your grandkids go trick or treating
  2. Read a bed time story to a grandchild
  3. Sing songs and do nursery rhymes with grandchildren
  4. Play together with a grandchild
  5. See your grandchildren dressed in their new school clothes before they leave on the first day of school
  6. Wish them Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, or happy birthday/Ground Hog’s Day/Flag Day, Labor Day/Easter/or whatever!
  7. Color pictures together
  8. Play dress up together
  9. Have a virtual tea party together
  10. Have cookies and milk together
  11. Discuss how school is going
  12. Prearrange to watch a movie then discuss it (or read a book and discuss it)
  13. Send your grandchild a packet of things to make (like paper foldables) and after she makes them she can show them to you through Skype
  14. Give sewing or piano lessons or teach them how to cook
The idea is to think of things that you would normally do if your grandchildren lived close by and then see if you can do it virtually using Skype."

image from here

Here's another page that describes specific ideas for reading with your grandchildren through a webcam- including choosing books with bright colors that will show better on the screen, dressing up with an accessory or prop that goes along with your book, and setting a regular (such as weekly) time to have storytime with your grandchild.

This page highlights some other ways to use technology to connect with grandchildren, including phone and "face" (webcam) time, but also emailing short videos back and forth to each other and recording your voice in one of Hallmark's recordable storybooks.

Of course, nothing compares to actually being with your grandchildren, as Barbara Graham explains in her post "Why I Hate Skype." She laments, "It's lovely to catch glimpses of my two granddaughters in between visits. I'm grateful for the technology that (sort of) bridges the 3,000 miles between us. Still, the sight of these two little girls minus actual physical contact often leaves me feeling more yearning than joy. They seem so close, yet really they're so very far away."

In our digital sweet home establishment, we musn't forget the grandparents who may very well be eager to learn and explore the brave new digital world...especially if it allows them precious time with distant loved ones!

Tuesday, October 9, 2012

Recalculating

I almost wrote this blog post yesterday. And part of me doesn't care to post it today, either. Because the last thing (our proposal) I posted on my blog was specific and meaty and confident. And this post is, by comparison, kind of vague and hesitant (ok, so I'm kind of prideful). However, this is all part of the process, and so here we are. Thanks for coming along for the ride!

We received some GREAT (helpful) feedback on our project proposal last week. Thank you, reviewers! We worked hard to make our proposal thorough and cover many of the interests and ideas we'd discussed. Unfortunately (or probably fortunately), this also means that we were trying to cover too many bases and so needed to narrow our focus.

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Yes, destination not yet reached...but we can find "joy in the journey," right President Uchtdorf? Trying to enjoy the brilliant work of the other "bikers" in the class without comparing...:)

Since we began the project- and especially since realizing where we need recalculate from where we were at last week- we have been thinking and researching and discussing and thinking some more. I think my problem is that there are so many directions to go with this project and I am attached to a lot of the topics! Blogging. Teleconferencing. Internet safety. All of these things are important for families and a catch-all blog could have allowed us to explore all of these (and more) on the surface, publishing them on our blog and hoping to attract eager readers, at least for the semester. However, while we want to create something that will matter to a lot of people, it is just as important that it can REACH a lot of people!

Did I mention at the start that this post might be kind of vague? I am going to leave you hanging now as we continue to recalculate. But we are on the verge of something great, I know it! Why? We have an amazing group of individuals working on creating something meaningful for families.

Cami understands the importance of simplifying, of setting our sights on attainable goals- a voice of reason.
Audrey has personal and work experience that give her confidence that the whole group can draw from.
Jake is an efficient organizer, helping us to set deadlines and make assignments.
Allie has big dreams and works as hard and long as is necessary to accomplish them.
And I have the gift of appreciating other people and validating their great ideas.
 
Hopefully, together, we can not only enjoy this journey (including the recalculating), but also arrive at some destination that we feel good about and that can help many others to establish and maintain a happy and sweet digital home.

Tuesday, October 2, 2012

Proposing Our "HOME" Page



  1. Project Title: Digital Sweet Home
  2. Description: The goal of our project is to promote awareness of how new digital media can unify families in profound and meaningful ways. We propose to do this by creating and establishing a blog called “Digital Sweet Home” where families can gain insight into the usage of digital media.The blog will provide instructions on how to use various social medias, video chats, and other digital media available. Articles featuring success stories of families who have utilized the web to create stronger familial bonds will be posted on the blog, as well as information about keeping families safe from hacktivists, malware, and other threatening online presences.
  3. Project Members:
    1. Audrey Blake
    2. Jake Cannon
    3. Allie Crafton
    4. Rebecca Graham
    5. Cami Wilson
  4. Social Proof
    1. Evidence of Informal Social Proof
      1. Rebecca’s family responded with enthusiasm when she presented the premise of the project to them. They contributed some helpful initial input about their concerns and experiences with digital technology in their individual families. They also gave examples of how technology has had a positive effect on their families. Rebecca recorded her family’s responses to provide references for the objectives and goals of the project.
      2. Cami posted on Facebook to close friends and family asking why they blog. Many mentioned that they blog to keep in touch with family.
      3. Cami emailed a few of her closest friends and asked them to respond to her blog posts on the family and blogging. A few of them responded with interest for their future families.
      4. Jake discussed this with his family. They thought it was a good idea and were willing to share their experiences. (See Jake’s blog post)
    2. Evidence of Outside Social Proof
      1. Allie recently tweeted: “Collaborating with digital media enthusiasts to create a blog highlighting the ways new media unites families in unparalleled ways. Advice?” She has received attention from other social media enthusiasts who are focused on fostering love and on connecting people through social media.
      2. Audrey Blake reached out to professional blogger Mary Kay Hoal to seek advice and support on the project, informing her of our project’s goal of educating families on the uses and benefits of new media today.
      3. Allie sent a Facebook message to a potential interviewee, Kylie Fly Turley one of the renowned “Traveling Triplets,” asking for social proof of the project and for potential help in creating some of the content.  Kylie’s feedback was enthusiastic as she was eager to join with her sisters in helping to launch our blog.
    3. Annotated List of Potential Outside Sources for Further Social Proof
      1. Dr. Burton, a Brigham Young University English professor, digital media enthusiast, and family man. Dr. Burton can provide insight on how to utilize and harness the digital world for the benefit of the family world.
      2. Rebecca’s Brigham Young University professor and friend from the School of Family Life: Cortney Evans, who specializes in early childhood development
      3. Joshua Perkey, Senior Editor at Ensign Magazine, Senior Editor at Liahona Magazine, and Intern Coordinator for LDS Digital. Joshua Perkey can inform us of the need for a Church Magazine article on the subject of our project.
      4. Shanelle Matthews at The Strong Families Initiative. Shanelle can provide us with possible contact information of new moms who have experienced positive help from using digital media who commented on her blog.
      5. OK.com Your Family’s Media Guide. Members of OK.com is an example of a new media website that “enables parents to make educated decisions by giving them a set of tools to connect with a trusted online community that shares their standards and criteria."
      6. The Sister Four. Selina, Sophia, Olivia, And Elise can provide us with positive examples of how their family stays united and connected via the Internet.
      7. Six Sisters’ Stuff. These sisters can provide us with positive examples of how their family stays united and connected via the Internet.
      8. The Internet Safety Project, where we can both read and contribute articles. Additionally, Audrey works for the professor in charge of the project.
      9. BYU Magazine: The Benefits of Mommy Blogging
      10. Anna Empey and capstone thesis on the positive effects of Mommy Blogging
  5. Literature Review
    1. Links to Blog Posts Exploring our Topic
      1. Why Do YOU Mommy Blog? – Cami Wilson’s Digital Dialogue blog
      2. Upwardly Evolving – Cami Wilson’s Digital Dialogue blog
      3. Family Time and Internet Time – Audrey Blake’s Girl of the Twenty-First Century blog
      4. Internet Safety Project – Audrey Blake’s Girl of the Twenty-First Century blog
      5. Goodreads Review on Girl Wide Web 2.0 – Audrey Blake’s Girl of the Twenty-First Century blog
      6. Failure to Connect – Allie Crafton’s RERO blog
      7. Family Togetherness” – Jake Cannon’s I Ran Into a Rattle Snake blog
      8. What do Families Want? – Rebecca Graham’s The Garden of My Mind blog
      9. Digital Sweet Home – Rebecca Graham’s The Garden of My Mind blog
      10. THIS is When I Adore Technology – Rebecca Graham’s The Garden of My Mind blog
    2. Books/Articles that Establish the Relevance and Importance of Our Topic
      1. Girl Wide Web 2.0 by Sharon R. Mazarella
      2. The Parent App: Understanding Families in the Digital Age by Lynn Schofield Clark. Clark “provides what families have been sorely lacking: smart, sensitive, and effective strategies for coping with the dilemmas of digital and mobile media in modern life.”
      3. Always On: How the iPhone Unlocked the Anything-Anytime-Anywhere Future--and Locked Us In by Brian X. Chen
      4. FAILURE TO CONNECT: How Computers Affect Our Children's Minds -- and What We Can Do About It by Jane M. Healy
      5. A Heartbreaking Tale of Staggering Genius by David Eggers
      6. The effect of Internet use on adolescents’ lifestyles: A national survey (Wang, Ligang; Luo, Jing; Luo, Jing; Gao, Wenbin; Kong, Jie Computers in Human Behavior, 2012, Vol.28(6), pp.2007-2013, November 2012)
      7. Internet-based parent management training: A randomized controlled study (Enebrink, Pia; Högström, Jens; Forster, Martin; Ghaderi, Ata Behaviour Research and Therapy, 2012, Vol.50(4), pp.240-249, April 2012)
      8. Safe Infant Sleep Recommendations on the Internet: Let's Google It (Chung, Matthew; Oden, Rosalind P.; Joyner, Brandi L.; Sims, Alexandra; Moon, Rachel Y. The Journal of Pediatrics, 2012)
  6. Literary Component: Fiction Literary Works Providing Insight on Our Topic
    1. Remains of the Day
    2. V for Vendetta (Understanding hacktivism)
    3. Slaughterhouse-Five: The author presents himself and other characters in both fictional and true-to-life ways; the implications of having multiple identities online. Internet safety.
  7. Format & Audience
    1. Audience: Families in the United States, starting with the families that we are directly connected to. We hope the audience will expand as our blog grows and improves and as others share our blog with their friends and family members!
    2. Format: Blog featuring articles written by us, including research, links to resources, and interviews
    3. Possibly a printed brochure to attract people to the blog
    4. Article submissions to the Internet Safety Project wiki, Stance for the Family, and Church magazines
  8. Success Criteria: we will also measure our success based on:
    1. Do we discuss, address, and aim to help with the concerns expressed in responses to our survey?
    2. Whether the blog gains an audience and/or positive feedback from outside the class
    3. What we learn and incorporate in our own families from the process of working on this project
    4. The publication of an article
  9. Prototype
    1. Google Doc
    2. Notebook Sketches (below)
    3. Google Forms Survey, to be administered online after further revision
    4. Blog layout here